эссе The ideal family of the future

Such marriages limit the ability of partners to interfere in each other's habits and lifestyle, increase the potential for their self-realization, but also create certain difficulties in the upbringing and care of children.Thus, taking into account the whole variety of forms of natural and artificial kinship, each person finds himself in the crosshairs of many competing family systems. The dream of the great Russian thinker N.F. Fedorov might come true. End of orphanhoodwill hopefully come to the end and unlimited kinship will begin.Important values for creating ideal family of the futureThe ideal family is the family in which everything is built on trust to each other, where there is no lies and deceit, also I suppose that this values will be always important even for families of future:Ability to hear and listen to each other. Just to share and talk with each other not only on the topic of money, fatigue, problems;Ability to stop in anger and their "disheveled" feelings;Notice all the good and warm that comes from the other;Do not betray;To be able to understand and forgive another.Children grow up in love and harmony, become more confident in themselves. Every happy family has its secrets and they are built on the mutual development of their relationships. In order to be happy even for family of the «future» it is necessary, in my opinion: to be mutually tolerant; to be able to distinguish the main thing from trivialities; to compromise; to consider a wife or husband as the best friend. Besides the main values ​​for any family always are the harmony in the house, mutual respect, interests of children and the older generation. ConclusionI believe that the most sacred thing for a person is the family and the Motherland.For everyone, the ideal family is different. Basically, the family is represented as a quiet harbor where everyone loves each other, where mutual understanding and respect reign, where each member of the family has the opportunity to develop as a person. In real life very often the image of how it should not be the same as it really is. Why is this happening?Psychologists say that all fantasies about an ideal family are not devoid of common sense and give us the opportunity to represent an image that we should strive for. They can be compared to fairy tales, which we, of course, read a certain picture of something ideal, ideal heroes, ideal relationships and, in the end, an ideal end. Good conquers evil, meanness is punished, diligence is rewarded and the like.All this is wonderful, as well as a fantasy about an ideal family with only one difference: in our real life, unfortunately or fortunately, unlike fairy tales, there are no magic wands and gins that fulfill three desires and not always good wins evil.In any family other than love, there can certainly be a kind of rivalry, anger, irritation or even hatred. Not allowing the thought that this is possible, we thus do not let emotions manifest, which in turn is destructive for our soul.The society can take on some of the functions of the family, but it cannot replace a family itself, because the latter is the primary cell, the union of which with the like creates society.The family is an indispensable institution in modern society as well as in the society of the future.And hopefully family of the future will not differ too muchfrom the current one, which gives a deep understanding of mutual aid and compassion, confidence in ideals of brotherhood and humanity, it will remain to be the school of human transformation, improvement, progress, including spiritual development.To sum up, I am pretty sure that family relations in the future will become a reliable support for the great mission - to help humanity become a big single family without distinction of color, creed or social status.